
George Hodgman has a unique voice which sets this memoir apart from any other. He is remarkably observant, quick and witty, allowing him to be both laugh-out-loud funny and achingly tender while describing caring for his elderly mother with dementia. Hodgman believes that he garnered this ability to entertain through his experience of growing up gay in a small and conservative rural Missouri town where he was forced to deflect attention through humor. At a recent booktalk, an audience member began her question "I'm interested in growing up gay in a small town...". Hodgman interjected, "it's too late for that, Honey." He is as sharp in person as in print.
In the book, Hodgman who has led a successful editing career in NYC returns to his hometown to care for his sometimes cantankerous mother. Underlying themes include aging, communication, belonging, and, most of all, the importance of kindness in its variety of forms. My heart swells at the unconventional depictions of kindness in this book.